New Year's Eve

It rained all day, with overcast skies threatening to derail tonight's firework display to usher in the New Year. I'm not a great fan of fireworks but I recall that you and Saw Hong or Li Huey will drive out after dinner to watch the fireworks. What I cherished most is the effort you made to spend New year's eve with me; we had so much fun together. I miss you.

A trip to Penang

Last weekend, I was in Penang to observe the Emperor of Nine Gods Festival, and also to re-visit some  tourist spots. My first day was spent walking around the city area where most old buildings were undergoing restoration. Penang Road was my first stop, and there was a queue for Penang laksa and chendol, which tasted so yummy! Next, I headed for Armenian street; oh, what a pretty sight! The area was surrounded by an old temple, the picturesque Cheah clan building and newly painted pre-war shop houses. The famous Kuan Yin temple was under renovation and the Khoo Kongsi was closed by the time I reached there.Determined not to miss it, i went back to Cannon Street the morning before i flew back to Singapore. I was impressed by how well kept the Khoo Kongsi is; given its rich heritage I shouldn't be, perhaps.An electronic TV screen featuring Hokkien opera highlights was the new addition, a mirror of the stage in the court yard. On the second day, i took the bus to Kek Lok Si, and took the new cable car to the roof top which housed the Kuan Imm statue. It brought back memories of the last time i was there with your mom and Steve, where we observed a quiet moment thinking about you.  My next stop is Penang Hill. I was greeted by a blast of music meant for an event for the kids, and after pausing for a drink, i walked down the hill to reach Botanic Gardens. Nothing much has changed since my last visit ages ago, except for the addition of tram cars for anyone who cares for a ride. Generally, i was impressed by how green and clean the island is, and buses that ran on schedule. The most interesting night scene was Burma road where street stalls were set up selling vegetarian food for devotees of the Emperor of Nine Gods. The rain failed to stop the crowd from celebrating their favorite festival. I headed home happy and satisfied.

A Day at Marina Barrage

I had some charity tickets for the National Kidney Foundation (NKF) and decided to make good use of them. Having convinced Raj to go with me, we decided to be adventurous and take the long route to burn some calories; we walked about 3.1km under overcast sky; the humidity was high but a little help from the breeze made our walk more pleasant. As we approached Marina Barrage we were greeted by a blast of vocals trying to impress but didn't really succeed. We found a shady spot to cool off before heading for the food; the most yummy was the fried tau foo with bean sprouts and peanut sauce. Oh, the home-made Belgian chocolate was yummy too. After hanging around for an hour, we headed back the way we came which added up to a 7.2km walk. I thought you would have enjoyed the outing too; the last time we walked for a cause was at Lake Gardens with Li Huey, Pheng and Cheng.

The Miniature Palm Tree

The miniature palm tree that you gave me died. It had been with me the last 8 years. I felt helpless that I couldn't do anything to revive it. Obviously, it needed a lot more care than I was able to provide given the limited visits to KL. I feel sad and all I can say is that it is irreplaceable, coming as it is from you. Already, I miss it.

Oh, What a week!

Last Saturday, I got a distress call from Pheng; her mum was admitted to the ICU for severe infection of the lungs. We know Pheng's mum has a history of lung problems but this time the infections were so bad that she had difficulty breathing. Cheng and I rushed back to KL to see her. All of us were very upset to see her struggling to breathe with a big mask on and later tubes. She had to be sedated to calm her down. By Monday morning, she looked better although she still needs the tubes to help her breathe. With her condition improving, I headed back to Singapore and kept in touch with Pheng on a daily basis. As I write, I was told that she's more alert and may be able to breathe on her own without the tubes. We're all so happy and relieved to hear that!!

CNY 2012

I was back in Penang on the first day of Chinese New Year. My routine was similar to last year's; visited uncle Boo Eng and extended family after which Teng Lye dropped me off at my biological mum's place. My mum has a selective memory; she has no re-collection of everyone else except me; I'm not sure whether to feel privileged or sad, considering my second sis-in-law feels that her devotion to my mum went unappreciated.
After lunch, I dashed off to uncle Teik Ee's place for another round of family bonding and late late lunch. But the most touching moment was reserved for uncle Teik Ee who revealed to me how much he loves and misses you; don't we all?