22 Aug 2025

 Ah teow passed away on Friday 22 Aug, which is also kor kor’s birthday. I came back to KL the next day to see Pheng, Cheng, ah Boy, Lisa and Clarence. We reminisced about ah teow who had touched our hearts in many ways. Ah teow had donated his body to the hospital teaching program and so there was no wake. I feel sad to lose a kind and caring brother in law. Miss you too.

July 19 wedding

 This morning, your brother Chean Shen married Rachel in a simple signing ceremony at the Moral Uplifting Society hall in Penang. Only immediate family members and close friends were invited to witness the occasion. The bride looked radiant in a white dress while the groom wore matching white shirt.

Looks like white is the flavor of the day as mom also wore a white outfit. As the signing ceremony came to a close, rings were exchanged. Very fittingly, Rachel wore the diamond ring that I gave you. 

 Wish you were here. We miss you.

Farewell to aunty Girly

 Aunty Girly passed away early Monday morning. Her funeral service is on Friday June 20. I’m flying in on Thursday morning for her wake and funeral. There is a complication though. Uncle Boo Eng is recovering from a broken leg in the hospital and has yet to be informed about aunty Girly. I feel so sad for him. 

ROM

 Your brother, Chean Shen, and Rachel are getting hitched in July. They are registering their marriage on Sat July 19 in Penang to be followed by a party in the evening. How I wish you could be there for your brother. We shall miss you very much. 

Love,

Aunty Choo Choo 

CNY 2025

CNY has become a pilgrimage for me; it’s a good time to see everyone. In KL, mom and I had our reunion dinner at Pheng’s place instead of going out. Pheng’s dad or Ah Teown as you called him hasn’t been well for some time. Old age is catching up on him. The next day, mom and I flew to Penang. Chean Shen picked us up but he didn’t seem well with an infected gum. Still, he managed to join us for our reunion dinner with uncle Boo Eng and family at his place. Age has caught up with uncle Boo Eng and he has some health issues which restrict his mobility. The next day, we did our usual rounds, visiting uncle Teik Ee (whom you called papa) at Milo’s place. I don’t think you’d met Milo, who is the youngest son of ‘papa’ and aunty Ah Eng.  I managed to squeeze in some time to visit Ah Yeu and Ah Bin whom I haven’t seen for 4 years. We had a great time catching up. On day two, mom hosted an open house, making spaghetti bologna and carbonara, which turned out pretty good; no wonder, Teng Hin’s son Nicholas and Teng Lye’s son Kar Vin went crazy with 3 rounds. As the sun sets, I was getting ready to head out to my biological brother’s place for a quick visit before heading to the airport. I reached Singapore at midnight, tired but happy that I’ve touched base with our families.

I miss you though.

December 2024

 The year is coming to a close but it’s never been easy for me to remember that you left us in a hurry on this day. For this reason, I’ve asked your brother to take mum to Sarawak for a holiday, otherwise she’ll get depressed at this time of the year. Two weeks ago, we celebrated mum’s birthday in Penang with your brother and Rachel. I’m in KL running some errands and heading back to Singapore today. 

I’ve taken up erhu lessons and I miss my practice sessions. I shall play a song for you.

Miss you so much! 😥

September 2024

 I dreamt of you last night. You came home and you just stood in front of me. You were wearing a long sleeve shirt and an ankle length skirt, quite a colourful outfit, which was uncharacteristic of you since I always see you in t-shirts and jeans. Nevertheless, I was so happy to see you and gave you a tight hug. There were a thousand and one questions I wanted to ask you but nature calls and I woke up. 

Your birthday is coming up and I shall never forget the times we spent together. I wondered whether you appeared in my dream to remind me of that. 

I will always miss you.